Feng Shui your Bedroom

You can either create a romantic atmosphere or a devastating relationship based on the things that are in your bedroom. The things around you in your environment are of vital importance when it comes to creating a life of abundance, happiness and romance. We are constantly exchanging energy with the things around us. You must place things in your environment that reflect your dreams and goals in every aspect of your life. If you want romance, then you must create an atmosphere where that is possible.

There are many people who are stuck, who don’t see to be able to go forward in their life. They do not understand that the influence of their environment is at work 24 hours a day every week of their lifetime. The flow of energy that surrounds you influences you greatly in either achieving your goals or blocking your dreams. Remember, you are a living, breathing, energy field and your environment is part of that field. You can change your life and level of happiness by changing the energy around you.

Certainly a serious athlete would not play any game on a field that was set up for him to fail, but many people set themselves up for failure unintentionally simply because they do not know how to use the Law of Attraction in their environment at home, work, and in the world in general to bring them what they want. Is your playing field set up to give the universe the message that you want wealth, more customers, empowering relationships, a happy family, health, romance, empowering relationships, and spiritual and personal growth?

Here are some hot tips for attracting a hot romance: SET YOUR BEDROOM UP FOR TWO. Even if you are single, if you are looking for a serious romance, you want to set your bedroom up for two. Set it up with two vanity tables and two mirrors. The headboard should be high and solid (no slats) for good support. Preferably, the windows are not behind the bed but are able to bring in light and fresh air. The pictures above the bed should reflect two beautiful objects. The colors and designs should not be too bright and busy, but relaxing, calm, and comfortable. Most important is that your bedroom is free from clutter. Reserve some space for your future partner to put their things. MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL, from my bedroom you must fall! When a mirror reflects your image when you are in bed, it can create negative dreams, double your health issues, and worst of all, it can create loneliness. It doubles the energy so if you are alone, it see’s that you are already two. If you are already two, it sees more in the bed and can bring other partners in. Simply cover the mirrors before you go to sleep. A great option is to hang curtains over closet mirrors. It gives your bedroom a luxurious look. WHAT HANGS ABOVE YOUR HEAD for your mind to contemplate all night? If you want romance, put a picture of a loving couple, not a single person. Check to make sure you don’t have an image that expresses loneliness, depression, or sadness. The image should depict what you want. Do you want a sensuous relationship? Then let the image reflect that. Do you want to travel with a partner? Then, that should be your image. If you cannot find two people that represent what you want, two of another image would be fine, such as two flowers together. Make sure there is nothing chaotic, violent, or extremely abstract above the head because it can cause nightmares and contribute to an abstract indefinite life. Never hang weapons, heads of animals or even pictures of predatory animals where you sleep. SHUT THE DOOR PLEASE! If the bathroom opens into your bedroom, it is especially important that the bathroom door should be kept shut with the toilet lid down. That is, unless you want to flush away romance, good energy and prosperity. I WOULD SCREAM IF YOU MADE ME SLEEP UNDER A BEAM! When people sleep under beams and low ceilings, they can have trouble focusing because such structures put pressure on the aura. There is often a health challenge in the exact location the beam crosses a person’s body. If the beam is between two partners, the relationship can break up. You can create a canopy over your bed to block the pressure or cover the beam with fabric or paint the beam to match the ceiling. The best remedy is to MOVE your body from that influence. IF ROMANCE IS IN, TV’s ARE OUT! TV’s, computers, and exercise equipment, should be kept out of a bedroom if romance is desired. These are active energy and do not belong in a bedroom. Your bedroom should look and feel like a place to be restful, romantic, and passionate. There is nothing passionate about a TV, a computer, or exercise equipment. IS YOUR HEADBOARD SUPPORTING YOU? Do you have a high, solid headboard? Your headboard should not have slats or spaces where energy can flow through at night. WHO FEELS COMPFORTABLE HERE? If you are a woman, make sure that everything in your bedroom, including the colors, isn’t too sweet and tender. If it creates an extremely soft, feminine, and frilly atmosphere a man will not feel comfortable there. The same is true if you are a man. A room that is too masculine is not conducive to bringing out a woman’s soft passionate nature and you will miss out on romance. CLUTTER, CLUTTER, GO AWAY! Don’t come back another day. Clearing clutter is the first step to opening your bedroom to the flow of new energy. Keep the clutter in the closets, if you must. Keep it out of sight! Clutter prevents focus and can cause depression. Another little tip is to keep the garbage cans hidden. COLORS CAN CREATE ROMANCE. Have a touch of Red, Rose or Fuchsia in your bedroom. These are colors of passion, love and collaboration. Pink is likewise a soft color to attract romance. Colors that are too bright make it difficult to become restful. Bright active colors should be saved for other rooms. WATER WEAKENS ROMANCE. Keep water out of the bedroom. Do not put water fountains or images with water in your bedroom – no seascapes, no mountains with lakes, etc. Emotions will run high and instability can be created if you do not observe this rule. ‘Live’ plants do not belong in the bedroom either, but silk plants are acceptable. YOU CAN’T BRING IN THE NEW IF YOU DON’T RELEASE THE PAST. If you have items that were given to you by a past relationship, get rid of them. Pictures that remind you of old times with other partners must go, if you wish to focus on bringing in the new. If you receive a pet from a partner who is no longer part of your life, of course you can keep it! Pets are members of your family. Other ‘things’, however, are occupying space that should be made available for a new relationship. FAMILY PICTURES ARE FOR FAMILY ROOMS. To keep the family out of your private, intimate business, keep family pictures in their proper place, which is not in the bedroom. When they are in the bedroom, the family is energetically seeing you and your private relationships. This creates a tendency for them to want to become involved in your personal relationships. Pictures of you and your mate are perfectly appropriate, however. WHERE SHOULD I PUT MY BED? WHERE SHOULD I PUT MY HEAD? This is one of the most important questions you can ask yourself when it comes to good romance in a bedroom. You should place your bed so that you can see anyone who is entering; however it should not be in direct line with the door. This gives you more of a power position. Where should you put your head? By changing the direction your head faces when you sleep, you can propel your relationship forward more quickly. Every person has four personal best directions based on his or her birthday. These are directions which send positive energy to you. You also have four unfortunate directions. Perhaps you are sleeping with your head against one of these directions if your relationships are not what you want them to be. If you want to focus on romance, the top of your head should be against your PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP DIRECTION. If that is not possible, then it is also beneficial to sleep with your head against your Personal Success Direction, or your Personal Health Direction, or your Personal Wisdom Direction.

Here is the SIMPLE SECRET to a lifetime of happiness! You must use the Law of Attraction in all 3 critical areas of your energy field. I call it the WOW factor. It is using the Law of Attraction in three simple easy ways: WITHIN you - (your words, thoughts and feelings, mental imagery.) ON you - (what you wear on your body - the colors, textures, fabrics, design, & accessories.) WHAT’S around you - (your environment – Feng Shui.) To make it simple, like attracts like. You can learn to hold the vision and incorporate the habits that allow you to radiate the energy of that which you want to attract - and the good news is that it is fun. Learning to do this is the most exciting adventure you will ever take.