Four Myths About the Female Orgasm

Women Must Achieve and Orgasm to Enjoy Intercourse
Women do not have to achieve an orgasm to enjoy sexual intercourse. Do not take this as an insistence to ignore your partner's needs, but many women enjoy the pleasure of intercourse and the emotional connection with their partner as much as they enjoy the actual climax. This is not to say that women would not love to reach climax every time they are with their partner, but it is to say that women's satisfaction is not contingent upon consistent and frequent climaxing.

Males and Females Feel it the Same Way
The female orgasm is not always similar to the male orgasm, and many females experience them without knowing it. The common concept of a female climax involves the contraction of the pelvic floor muscles with an overwhelming feeling of euphoria- just like men. However, sometimes the event goes unnoticed because it is very subtle, and afterwards she feels very relaxed- similar to the way she feels after the explosive type that we are all familiar with.

Your Experience is What Gets the Job Done
The most important pieces of the puzzle are making your female partner comfortable and relaxed, and paying-attention/attending to her needs. Although your experience with other women will undoubtedly help you please your partner, it is not the most important part. You must take your time and become familiar with your partner's particular needs. And, you must not make her feel like she must reach climax because that will raise the bar so high that you will probably both feel performance anxiety- and probably disappointment afterwards. Another point to make regarding your performance is that if she is not relaxed and comfortable, you will probably not be able to please her no matter how 'good' you are.

Size Matters Most
Size is not the most important part! Like you have probably heard a million times before, it is not how big it is, it is how you use it. This is absolutely true! Only the first four inches inside a woman's vagina is particularly sensitive. Beyond that depth, sensitivity is greatly diminished. In fact, a huge member may result in painful intercourse. The adult industry makes men feel inadequate, and gives them the wrong idea about women's needs. Girth is more important than length because of the increased contact with the clitoris. This is because most women do not reach climax through vaginal contact alone. In fact, the vaginal orgasm is a very infrequent occurrence- most are achieved through clitoral stimulation.