How to Get Your Partner to Watch Adult Videos With You

Many men would love it if their female partner was interested in watching adult videos with them, but they are afraid to ask, because they are scared of how she might respond. The truth is that many women enjoy adult videos just as much as men, or at least open to the idea of trying them out- if they have not already. The problem that most men have is that they make their partners feel like watching them is about watching other women. If make the point clear that it is not about cheating with a video, then your partner will be much more receptive to the idea.

The first step is letting her know that you are interested in watching a video with her, and that you are not interested in watching the videos for the purpose of seeing other women. Make it clear that you are interested in getting new ideas of positions to use with her. One of the best ways to introduce this idea is by purchasing an erotica book or video, on the softer side, e.g. Kama Sutra to watch together. If this goes over well, and you have a mutual inclination towards taking it to the next level, then move on to the next step.

The second step is to watch a safe, premium cable TV video, like you see late at night on Cinemax or HBO. These are very couple-oriented, and are not graphic at all. Most people would not find these late-night shows offensive, so they are pretty safe if the erotica video/book went over well. They can be stumbled-upon when channel surfing, so you can very easily bring them into discussion by 'accidentally' turning them on when you watch television together. If she likes it, and you have successfully made the transition to these video, and your experiences together are intensifying as a result, then it is time to go all the way.

The third and final step is to pick out an adult video at a store, or online. Find videos that are geared towards couples, i.e. not degrading to women. Videos are becoming more couple-oriented, now that video makers are discovering how many women enjoy them as well, but there are still a lot of terribly offensive ones out there, so be careful. Also, you will have a terrible experience watching a video with her if she offended, and she will probably not be interested in watching videos with you again in the future. To play it safe, you should probably let her pick the video the first time, and you should go along with whatever she picks. Wait until the second time you watch a video together to voice your opinion.

If you have successfully made the transition to watching videos together, congratulations! A few things to keep in mind are; never suggest any degrading videos (they are not enjoyable anyways), focus on her, do not try to watch them all the time, do not just watch the videos with her- get interactive by trying out some of the things in the videos while you watch them.